Do you want to meet crossdressers?
Many men want to meet crossdressers but lack a basic understanding of the different types of transgender folks. You’ve probably met crossdressers and didn’t even know it. Crossdressers (sometimes written as cross dressers or abbreviated as CD’s) are a largely misunderstood group, yet they make up the largest single sub-group within the larger transgender community.
Many outsiders believe the popular misconception that cross dressing is the pastime of gay men and that the act of cross dressing is perverse. This is absolutely untrue. A Crossdresser usually self identifies as a male and they may or may not be homosexual. Many, if not most, crossdressers are married and cross dress to relieve their stress and slip the bonds imposed by the strict definitions of male and female in our society.
Crossdressers usually maintain a separate male life, apart from their crossdressing persona, which they allow out to play at times. Crossdressers are usually intelligent, successful and more sensitive than average. Crossdressing is an expression of their feminine side. It is known to greatly relieve stress and tension and may be therapeutic in that regard. Cross dressing is not a mental illness although it has frequently been cited as such, even by those in the mental health profession. The view of cross dressing as a mental illness is thankfully, pretty much outdated these days. That aside, there are certainly cases where the cross dressing creates difficulties in marriage, employment or other responsibilities.
Unfortunately, many crossdressers do not know how to meet other CD’s or accepting friends. This can lead to a sense of isolation and sometimes self-destructive behaviors such as alcohol or drug abuse. On the positive side, there are many more resources available for crossdressers now than ever before. Much of this is due to the ease of accessing information and meeting people of like minds via the Internet.
Many seek to meet other CD’s or admirers online at social sites, message forums, chat rooms and crossdresser dating sites. Some crossdressers date each other and may take turns in the male and female roles. This provides a sense of comfort and safety as they experience life as a female out on a date, or simply out socializing with a gentleman. Others have learned that there are many very nice TV & TS admirers who are more than willing to accompany them on a date. Some of these dates will progress no further but some crossdressers are bisexual or homosexual and find it quite natural to become romantically involved with their date. Interestingly, some crossdressers compartmentalize their identities. They are strictly heterosexual while in their male mode, but are more willing to explore the duality of their sexuality while dressed as a female.
Several selected resources for crossdressers are listed here;
TV TS Dating – a dating site where you can meet many local crossdressers and transgender community admirers, both male and female.
Transgender Guide – transgender resource site for crossdressers and other TG persons with an active message forum and cross dressing resources.
Transgender Chat – a popular chat room for crossdressers, transsexuals and transgender people. The chat is monitored by helpful chat moderators.
TV/TS personals sites offer a great way to meet crossdressers and their admirers for fun, friendship or romance. You join for free, browse the photo personals and locate local advertisers. You can use private messaging and online chat to get to know each other before you divulge any personal information. If all goes well you may find yourself out on the town with a new friend or on a date with a potential new lover.
TV/TS Dating Categories you may find interesting
Crossdressers seeking cross dressing partners
Crossdressers seeking men
Crossdressers seeking women
Men seeking crossdressers
Women seeking crossdressers